6 Hacks for Combating Procrastination
Simply put, procrastination is the act of unnecessarily postponing decisions or actions. The most problematic procrastination tends to be personal goals, relationship changes, or self-development. The central theme behind the aforementioned: no deadline. We are fueled into action by the panic we feel when the deadline for a project, presentation, or bill is approaching. We typically rationalize our procrastination to ourselves by making excuses such as ‘I will do it when I have more time, I don’t have the energy right now, or I will do that once I feel more motivated.’ Procrastination is one of the primary culprits for why we feel stagnant, frustrated, lowered sense of self-worth, and incapable of making lasting change in our lives.
Before making a commitment to change your procrastination habits, it is important to gain insight into why you are procrastinating. We commonly mistake procrastination for laziness, lack of willpower, or simply a part of our personality. Let us take a moment to challenge these unhelpful assumptions, and gain awareness of the potential deeper reasons motivating our procrastination.
Common reasons behind procrastination and helpful hacks to combat the procrastination:
Task aversion We are more likely to delay completing tasks that we do not enjoy or feel a sense of accomplishment once completed.
Hack: pairing the task that you don't like with something you do enjoy. Example: hate folding laundry? Put on your favorite podcast while you do it. That way we teach our brains that there can be something enjoyable about the dreaded task.
Vague goals When we set loosely defined goals, we don’t have a clear vision for how we will initiate the behavior or measure progress toward goals.
Hack: specify your goals and break them down into specific actions you will take. Example: Instead of ‘exercise more’ try ‘go to yoga three times a week.’
Perfectionism When we operate under the notion that our interactions, work or home must be perfect - we end up creating unnecessary delays for ourselves and miss opportunities.
Hack: lower your perfectionistic expectations and create tolerance for some imperfection. This does not mean lowering your standards, it just means being more realistic about your standards.
Overwhelmed If we have too much on our to do list or too many stressors in our life, it is likely that we will struggle to know where to get started or what to prioritize. Hack: break large tasks into smaller tasks or prioritize tasks based off order of importance. If all else fails, just get the momentum going by starting on the smallest task or behavior first.
Fear of negative feedback This is a common reason behind why we don’t ask someone out on a date, ask for a raise, or set a boundary with a friend. We don’t like the potential for disappointment, criticism, or rejection.
Hack: Challenge the urge to make negative predictions about the outcome or reframe your perspective on negative feedback. Negative feedback can be an opportunity to learn about yourself and make meaningful changes.
Indecisiveness In a world filled with infinite options, indecision is inevitable. When there are too many options for us to choose from, we experience decision fatigue. Decision fatigue causes us to resort to muscle memory and preexisting habits.
Hack: Narrow down your options (no more than 4 options) or create a time frame for yourself to make the decision.
-Abby Jones, LMSW, LMAC