Go Gentle Into This New Year
2020 left behind a world of loss. Our hearts feel the weight of missed milestones, withered friendships, canceled weddings, eliminated jobs, separated families, illness, death, trauma, and uncertainty. Even in a new year, so many of us are grieving.
Show yourself the same kindness and care that you would show a friend!
Self-compassion means being gentle and understanding with yourself. You are not perfect, in fact, no one is! Mistakes are opportunities for growth and improvement. It may be hard, but try not to get angry with yourself when life falls short of your set expectations.
Avoid Those Pesky Mealtime Struggles
Mealtimes don’t have to be such a struggle, if parents can put healthy habits in place around eating. The Parents Active in Their Children’s Health (PATCH) Program provides helpful tips for healthier mealtimes by using the acronyms PREP and PARED shared below.
3 Tips for Making the Holidays Meaningful in Spite of the COVID Crisis
This year has been a challenging and terrifying ride for most humans. Yet, here we are. The holidays look very different this year
Avoiding Avoidance
Real talk- avoidance just feels easier sometimes. Avoidance can show up in so many different ways in our lives and we may not even realize it. To first understand why avoiding avoidance is important, we have to first wrap our head around the anxiety cycle. So lets’ take a look.
Creating A Secure Attachment With Your Partner
After a vast review of research and literature by relationship experts, psychotherapist Jessica Fern, author of Polysecure, indicates 5 ways you can cultivate a secure attachment with your partner.
Decreasing Anxiety Using our Five Senses
Incorporating your five senses can be a great way to relax, control anxiety and find the self-care practices that work for you. Without even knowing it, our senses can affect our emotions. Some of the following techniques can be used for grounding during a moment of escalation or heightened anxiety. Others are long-term practices of self-care and relaxation.
Progress is not always linear: Don’t let it discourage you from your goals
Have you ever felt disappointed or given up on a goal because you thought you were “falling off track” or not progressing as you would have liked to? We often get discouraged when we do not see a linear progress in our goals, but realistically we will often face setbacks and growth will not happen overnight.
Ouch, World.
When grief, sadness, anger, and anxiety roll in, it’s only natural to be overwhelmed, feel threatened, or let it consume us. We’re only human, after all, and our internal weather is wild with feelings that sometimes land without warning. It’s helpful to recognize a storm of emotions as perfectly normal, even holy. It arrives to say, “you have a heart.”